Showing posts with label prop 8. Show all posts
Showing posts with label prop 8. Show all posts
Wednesday, January 14, 2009
2009 Already has me down....how about you?
Ive been in a less than happy mood lately. Ive spent the last few months trying to improve myself yet im finding myself deeper and deeper into sadness. I quit smoking on January 1st and that has not helped my emotional stability. But the one thing that is truly taken a toll on my mood is the fact that I can not be with the one i love. Being in a bi national same sex relationship has obstacles that has taken over me. The land of the free, due to its discrimination toward same sex couples, forbids me to be with her legally. I finally have someone who makes all my sadness disappear and the country i was born in, THE USA, has shut me out from my right of happiness. With everything that is going on in the world, unemployment, debt, wars, and violence, im overwhelmed with anger. There is nothing or i should say no one able to take away the hurt that my heart feels everyday except her. Sometimes you just want to come home and be close to that special someone. Its difficult for me to put into words exactly how i feel right now. My life feels like it is on hold and that someone else ( Washington) is granted the right to dictate my future. I feel helpless though i know im not. I want to stand up against those who deny me my happiness. I want to run through the streets demanding equality.
Thursday, November 20, 2008
Where to begin?
2008 has been a wild year. Ive seen and met wonderful people. Drove across America. Followed my favorite band on tour. Secured my feeling that i am with the person i want to spend the rest of my life with. Yet 2008 is ending on a sad note. One that i am yet to come to terms with. The vote of Prop 8.
8 has always been my favorite number. But on Nov 4th the number took on a different relevance. What has our State or our country become. That is a silly a question because we all know that hate and bigotry and nonacceptance has always stood in the forefront of America.
I thought we were improving, evolving even. I had hoped we were at least. Yet when i stood out in the pouring rain with my No on 8 sign , side by side by angry Yes on 8 supporters screaming at me horrid names, it was brought to my attention we have not improved.
Reading blog after blog I'm still left with amazement. There are those who believe this isn't a Civil rights issues. Or that the No on 8 people should just sit and take the fact that a legal right has been taken away. The Yes on 8 people are OK with this, for now, but would they be if it were their rights?
If being Gay is so destructive, then why hasn't the world dissolved already. Gay people have been around as long as I can remember and i haven't seen the 2nd coming. People try to destroy what they cant control or don't understand. I know it is pointless trying to discuss this with some people as their ignorance is abundant and their ears are shut to reasoning.
If Civil Unions were the same legally then maybe the issue of Marriage wouldn't have come to this. But its not. I want to marry my girlfriend and i want to be able to say I AM MARRIED. I want no misunderstanding when i say it. I want no room left available for someone to say " Oh you re not really married...you have a civil union"
I stop myself and think about all the money spent on Prop 8. How many people that could have been fed. How many children could have been clothed. How many homeless could have been helped. But the money was spent on trying to destroy personal happiness of people that most Yes on 8 supporters cant even put a face to. I went to Catholic school and i clearly remember that it was not taught to seek out to destroy peoples lives..or their families.
As a woman who is half black and half white, i have grown up never truly fitting in with one culture. But thats ok. Because i was taught that we all are equal. No one is better or worse. That we should embrace our differences. We should show compassion to those we do not understand.
But what California has shown me...well 5 million Californians that is, Is that i am not equal. That my relationship is not equal. That my money is good for taxes but my equality comes with a price. Its 2008 already. When do we stop telling the next minority group its their time to sit in the back of the bus. When do we all realize that we need to work together.
We've already practically destroyed our planet. Our children are getting some of the worst educations possible. Crime and Violence is at an all time High. We have two wars going on. Economic Crisis comparable to the Depression of the 30's. Shall i go on. Together we stand Divided we fall.
Lets create more love in this world and stop all the hate.
8 has always been my favorite number. But on Nov 4th the number took on a different relevance. What has our State or our country become. That is a silly a question because we all know that hate and bigotry and nonacceptance has always stood in the forefront of America.
I thought we were improving, evolving even. I had hoped we were at least. Yet when i stood out in the pouring rain with my No on 8 sign , side by side by angry Yes on 8 supporters screaming at me horrid names, it was brought to my attention we have not improved.
Reading blog after blog I'm still left with amazement. There are those who believe this isn't a Civil rights issues. Or that the No on 8 people should just sit and take the fact that a legal right has been taken away. The Yes on 8 people are OK with this, for now, but would they be if it were their rights?
If being Gay is so destructive, then why hasn't the world dissolved already. Gay people have been around as long as I can remember and i haven't seen the 2nd coming. People try to destroy what they cant control or don't understand. I know it is pointless trying to discuss this with some people as their ignorance is abundant and their ears are shut to reasoning.
If Civil Unions were the same legally then maybe the issue of Marriage wouldn't have come to this. But its not. I want to marry my girlfriend and i want to be able to say I AM MARRIED. I want no misunderstanding when i say it. I want no room left available for someone to say " Oh you re not really married...you have a civil union"
I stop myself and think about all the money spent on Prop 8. How many people that could have been fed. How many children could have been clothed. How many homeless could have been helped. But the money was spent on trying to destroy personal happiness of people that most Yes on 8 supporters cant even put a face to. I went to Catholic school and i clearly remember that it was not taught to seek out to destroy peoples lives..or their families.
As a woman who is half black and half white, i have grown up never truly fitting in with one culture. But thats ok. Because i was taught that we all are equal. No one is better or worse. That we should embrace our differences. We should show compassion to those we do not understand.
But what California has shown me...well 5 million Californians that is, Is that i am not equal. That my relationship is not equal. That my money is good for taxes but my equality comes with a price. Its 2008 already. When do we stop telling the next minority group its their time to sit in the back of the bus. When do we all realize that we need to work together.
We've already practically destroyed our planet. Our children are getting some of the worst educations possible. Crime and Violence is at an all time High. We have two wars going on. Economic Crisis comparable to the Depression of the 30's. Shall i go on. Together we stand Divided we fall.
Lets create more love in this world and stop all the hate.
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